Two curious things i witnessed in my life

In life, i've witnessed two things ... 1) My sheer failure when i tried to change people with my knowledge(the group of words and ideas stored in my head that's not backed by my own experience) I've seen people going the opposite direction when i try to explain, request, command or convince them. I wondered why? asked myself whether i was wrong? Made sure that i was imparting the same stuff great people said or did. I found i was right in most of the cases. Still i saw myself pathetically fail in…continue reading →

Transform your Pains into Gains

Once upon a time there lived a group of oysters in a seashore- a seashore full of beauty and calm. All of them except one little oyster was so happy and enjoyed their lives. The little oyster seemed so gloomy. It suffered from physical pain. It can’t play, it can’t swim and sometimes it can’t even move out of severe pain. All others teased it, that they don’t have any pain. The little oyster wept bitterly, it can’t enjoy its life as others do. It asked itself.. “Why is this life so painful…continue reading →

Mistakes stitched together, that’s what I’m

  I was so uncomfortable with my mistakes, I was so resistant to my mistakes and failures. I was pushing them away. I was even unable to accept these things happened to me. I felt ashamed, guilty and sad. I tried to hide it. I pretended nothing wrong inside me. It made me more miserable....  I was like a thin rag torn and devastated.  With sadness, anger, resentment and guilt I threw away the torn pieces. I tried to hate them. I allowed so many to walk on the torn pieces, allowed many to…continue reading →

Are you mistaken?

Normally, whatever we know about ourselves is the opinion of others. If they say "You are good", we think we are good. If they say you are bad, you 'become' bad. If they condemn you, you start condemning yourself! WE GO ON ASSIMILATING THE PERCEPTIONS OF PEOPLE AROUND US AND OFTEN MISTAKE IT FOR OUR IDENTITY. THIS IS UTTERLY FALSE- NOBODY CAN KNOW WHO YOU ARE, EXCEPT YOU. As we mistake our identity with the perceptions of others, we try to please others, we become insecure and we feel the world around us…continue reading →

Mental dynamics of over eating

Over eating and obesity is a major problem people face now a days. We eat when we get bored, frustrated or when we feel we are incomplete. We think we need to consume more to feel happy and whole. We eat to feed the STARVING MIND rather than the starving body and as a result the body suffers. The MOST CURIOUS THING IS THAT the moment we start realising that our body suffer from over eating, we feel guilt about our habit of over eating. we start blaming ourselves and as a result…continue reading →

Love your inner child

Love your Inner Child It was a dull day for me. I was in my low profile and so sad for myself DOING THE WRONG THING AGAIN AND AGAIN. With anger and disappointment I said "I HATE MYSELF". My INNER CHILD was crying, tears started rolling through my cheeks. The child within asked me "DO YOU LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I DO WRONG?" I was afraid to say YES. I thought if i do, it's mean to love one's own inner child and he will spoil everything by doing the wrong again. So…continue reading →

An inspiring Autobiography

An autobiography in Five short Chapters Chapter 1 I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost ... I am helpless. It isn't my fault. It takes forever to find a way out. Chapter 2 I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don't see it. I fall in again. I can't believe I am in the same place. But it isn't my fault. It still takes a long time to get out. Chapter…continue reading →